20 Signs That The Relationship Is Over For Sure (2 of 4)

Repeating Yourself

Or maybe you or your partner have to make a point of repeating themselves or yourself. Boredom can seep into attention span and that’s where this sign starts to become more obvious.

Becoming Extremely Agreeable With Each Other

This one is a subtle one because no one enjoys fighting. It’s an ugly process and it can be hurtful as well. But arguing doesn’t always mean that a relationship is bad. In fact, when you are agreeing to everything it’s actually a sign that the couple is done for. Why? Because fighting can bring understanding and it’s also incorporating negotiations. It’s these sorts of aspects that while we don’t think of them as much, play a significant role in keeping a relationship alive.

At the end, when a couple wants to break up or divorce, negotiations are part of the course. If they’re indifferent to the whole situation that means even trying to make things work between you is over as well.

Not Telling You First When Something Big Happens

Whether it’s starting something new like a business or a hobby or getting a promotion or losing a client, it’s worth looking at who they tell first. In usual relationships, couples are quick to tell their partner the good – or bad – news. If not, well it’s worth looking at the validity of the relationship.

No Longer Doing “Your” Activities As A Couple

There comes a point in a relationship where a couple will have rituals and habits together. Could be a morning routine or making a certain meal on a certain day every week or watching a specific show together. Whatever the case is, these rituals are signs of a crumbling relationship. That is if one or the other suddenly skips out on them, I mean.

It feels weird and it’s a pretty big giveaway that the relationship is going sour.

Not Getting Therapy

Could be you or your partner or even both of you. Whatever the case is, therapy is a good way of getting things back on track and refusal can be a significant sign they don’t want to work it out.