20 Signs That The Relationship Is Over For Sure (3 of 4)

Feeling Alone Even When Together

Physically together while emotionally feeling alone and disconnected from each other. It’s a subtle sign and is one of the big concerns that comes up when looking at therapy. Therapists hear this problem all the time to the point that this is a sign that the relationship is going bad.

A Feeling That One Can Do Better

Change is inevitable. People will evolve and grow over time little by little without realizing it. While that progress is amazing, some people grow more over the years as new things happen in their lives as well.

A relationship can do some significant things in people’s lives. But it’s one thing to show happiness for that person making those changes and it’s another to question yourself and your own progress.

Sure the person you met a year or two ago and started dating loves you, but when you’re thinking of questions like “where is this going” or “do I really want this?” – there comes a point where those could be nudging you away from them.

Not Kissing Like They Mean It

Kissing in every culture is a sign of love and affection and looking at what’s being done in there can be a sign of a crumbling relationship too. A quick peck or an impersonal attempt at kissing can suggest there is no passion. Especially when you know their kissing felt good before.

Gaining Weight

This one is a sneaky one too, since everyone’s weight shifts around. From diet to the amount of exercise people do, having clothing not fit or be a battle to fit can be part of the course. But there is one other thing that can contribute to weight gain: emotional dysregulation.

If your clothes aren’t fitting, it’s worth looking at your living habits, but also looking at your relationship too. Relationship problems can lead to us coping with issues in our own ways and sometimes our coping is buying a big ol’ Costco bag of M&M’s.

Hair Loss

Weight gain is one thing, but hair loss is something else to consider. Sure we’re getting older and hair loss can happen in that case, but it is worth noting one thing with hair loss. Studies have shown hair loss to be more frequent when someone has higher stress levels. Sure people lose hair for various reasons, but if you know your relationship is turning bad and you’re starting to see hair slipping out, it’s a sign.