If you don’t make yourself a priority, none of the other pieces in your life will ever come together. When you have a negative relationship with yourself, you find ways to develop terrible habits that lead you to sabotage your life. Here are 5 signs you need to learn to love yourself more. When a person has a toxic relationship with themselves, they are incapable of accepting any form of positive feedback. In many situations, they will simply respond by insisting the praise is undeserved or even untrue. In order to get yourself out of this cycle of negative thinking, it is important to appreciate kind words.