6 Warning Signs That You’re Dating a Womanizer

“I absolutely love dating womanizers,” said nobody ever. And yet even the most astute women find themselves dating such guys all the time. It’s easy to be charmed by men who come across as sweet and charismatic. Womanizers have the ability to make women feel special, and as a result, their “prey” let down their guard and allowed themselves to trust them. But at some point the guy reveals his true colors, whether by ghosting the women who have fallen for him or when he struggles to explain all of the text messages he’s receiving from other girls. How can you tell if you might be dating a womanizer? Here are six red flags. 

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1. He never takes you to normal dating places

A typical date involves going out to dinner at a popular restaurant or strolling through the park while holding hands. But if the guy always insists on meeting in secluded locations or even in other cities altogether, there’s a good chance he’s trying to hide you from a spouse, girlfriend, or even the multiple girls he’s seeing. The best way to test out this theory is by suggesting a place in town such as a lively bar or a brunch spot where you’re likely to come across people you know. If he responds with evasiveness or offers lame excuses for why the two of you can’t go there, walk away. If he is truly interested in you, he wouldn’t hesitate to show you off.