11 Ways For Your Crush To Notice You
Even during these times of social distancing, there will still be people that catch our eye. It’s to the point that you may even fall in love with this person. This person could be the reason you are staying up all night daydreaming about them. Or maybe thinking about them causes you to struggle to focus on school or work.
But despite all of these emotions that you feel, there is still some level of doubt. You’re not sure if all of these distractions are at all worth it. After all, you don’t know if the person you are crushing on has the same feelings for you.
Indeed, falling for someone can present problems on an emotional level. There are heartaches and headaches as well. But these problems become larger in the cases where your crush doesn’t even know you exist.
This is the issue with many people when it comes to crushes. Sometimes your paths never seem to cross and that is disheartening and frustrating at the same time.
So instead of waiting and keeping those feelings bottled up, here are some simple strategies that we’ve put together to share with you.
These strategies are designed for your crush to at least notice you. This is the smarter approach, since if you open up by confessing your feelings, it may cause them to repel you instead.
Never Show You Are Crushing On Them
Before jumping into this, there are two big points to keep in mind. The second point is discussed after this, but the first point is avoid making it so obvious. As we mentioned above, expressing strong emotions towards a complete stranger is a huge gamble. It might work out for you, but the next time – if there is a next time – may not be as fortunate.
Nine times out of ten, someone projecting strong emotions is a huge turn-off. Especially if you are the type of person to go out and do stupid stuff to get noticed. Instead, don’t wear your emotions on your sleeve and keep yourself calm and collected. The tips below will help significantly in that department of course.
That said, if you want to do things beyond this, it’s important that you are mindful of your actions. Girls find it creepy when a guy expresses strong emotions towards them and may lose respect for you. On the other hand, guys aren’t big on easy-to-get girls. So regardless of who you are going after, be subtle about your emotions.
Start By Being Friends
The second thing to note before getting too far into this is to have this kind of mindset – being satisfied with being their friend. While you do have strong feelings towards your crush, our suggestion is to focus on being friends with them. While we like to think that hook-ups happen instantly, the ones that last for longer are usually the ones where both people are good friends with each other.
Indeed, friendship is the best foundation for any relationship. Therefore, if you want your crush to notice you, it’s important you get to be friends with them. This means having the guts of saying hello to them, offering help, and hanging out with them. The key is to act natural and not to make it obvious.
All that said, you can do some subtle things such as the things mentioned below.
Turn Some Heads
Now, physical appearance isn’t everything you need for someone to like you. For sure it is one factor, but it’s not the only one. Regardless, you can still be tactful in using this, since this is still a factor, so why not leverage it?
Mind you, it doesn’t all boil down to your figure nor the clothes you wear. You don’t need to wear sexy clothing, pile on makeup or have flashy accessories or expensive shoes. Your appearance can be as simple as wearing a shirt and pants that you feel comfortable in.
In the end, making yourself presentable, neat, and accentuating your assets is the key. For example, ladies can let their hair down if they usually have it long. Also as a general rule, wearing red is attractive, especially if your skin is fair.
As implied in the previous point, you can get away with simplicity, being neat, and clean. Attractiveness comes in many forms and one other way is to smell nice. With this in mind, don’t be afraid to put on some perfume or cologne to make yourself smell fresher and cleaner.
Of course, you want to be playing this by ear. For one, if your cologne or perfume is poignant, be conservative with it. Many people have allergies to scents, but also other people find strong smells from cologne or perfume to be irritating.