11 Ways For Your Crush To Notice You (2 of 3)

Smile

The world has plenty of pressures and stressors about it. If you are someone who can put up a genuine positive demeanour with that – it is actually a very good thing. People are naturally drawn to those who are positive and have a positive outlook despite tougher times.

One of the best ways to convey that in the world is by smiling.

Whenever you are feeling down, remember to smile as it tends to make you feel better. The same is true for those around you. Expressing gratitude and feeling grateful towards people is another way too.

Using this same tactic on your crush also works wonders in getting them to notice you and that may make them want to talk to you.

Have Something To Impress Them With

Sure smelling nice, smiling, and looking decent is a good start, but it’s not everything. You can only use these things for so long before you need to do something else to keep them around. As the saying goes, someone is only as interesting for as long as you show interest in them.

As such, there needs to be more to you than simply looks, smiling, and smelling nice.

Our suggestion is to have a few other skills. This is pretty simple, since a lot of us have hobbies that we indulge in. But it’s worth looking at how good are you in those hobbies. Furthermore, it also helps to make these hobbies more than hobbies.

Are you good at singing? Why not join a choir or a local band? Do you enjoy writing or drawing? Have you submitted your work to local contests? Good with making DIY stuff?

We’d also suggest attending workshops where you can grow those skills too.

Be Genuine About Concern And Interest

Flattery and acting can only get you so far. For you to get anywhere with your crush is to show genuine concern and interest in them. We’ll be sharing a few other tactics to build that up, but broadly speaking, you need to be genuine about your desire to help them and show an interest in them.

The impression you create with them is everything and there are subtle things you can do that can make a huge impact. When you are talking to them, give them your undivided attention and put your cellphone in your bag or in your pocket. Make a point of making eye contact with them. We’d even go as far as doing reflective listening. That is listening and then replying with essentially what the other was saying.

Ask About Their Interests

Getting them to talk is important and as we said, you need to show interest in them if you want to win them over. One of the smart conversations to have is to discuss what they are interested in. In some cases you may have different interests, but in some cases interests could be similar too.

Regardless, the key is to find some level of common grounds. Not only that, but it also helps in knowing what to be talking about in the future and what kind of topics to avoid. Naturally you don’t want to be talking about things that don’t interest them, so getting an idea of what to talk about helps.