13 Signs Divorce Is Coming (3 of 4)

You’re Not Telling Them Bad News First

From medical emergencies to flat tires, most happy couples will tell their spouse about this immediately. While external relationships are important, most people will normally think of their partner as their first point of contact. If they’re thinking of their friends or family first, that might not be a good sign.

The same holds true to good news as well. The first person to hear about it should normally be your partner.

You’re Experiencing Loss Already

Divorce is hard emotionally. Even if you don’t like your partner at the moment, there is still going to be a lot of pain from the process. But even before you make the decision to divorce, you have likely felt this sense of loss for a while.

Like you lost a close friend whom you trusted and cared for.

If you’re already experiencing loneliness or sadness, then it’s better to deal with it now than later.

You’re Not Asking About Their Day

That or feeling indifferent about their day. Regardless, these are casual chats and an opportunity to bond and connect. While they don’t seem like much, these are important to building and maintaining a relationship.

Once one or the other starts to show indifference or doesn’t care about these conversations, it’s a sign they’re not going to put in effort to grow or maintain this relationship.