20 Signs That The Relationship Is Over For Sure (4 of 4)

Noticing Flaws More

Maybe they struggle to take the trash out or forget to put the toilet seat down. Or maybe there is something they do that just irritates you and they can’t fix it. That’s part of the course with relationships, but it’s another thing when you start to notice those more and more and start raging on them about those.

This is big, because you’re more fixated on the things they are doing wrong, rather than on the positive qualities you fell in love with in the first place.

Not Talking About The Future

When couples are madly in love, one topic they cover is the future. Not only do they cover goals and ambitions on a personal level, but also where they see the relationship going. When those discussions stop, it’s obvious that they’re prioritizing themselves over the relationship.

The Sex Life Is Different

While changes in the bedroom alone aren’t always dead giveaways, if there are other factors in play, it can suggest something is wrong. Sex is more than just physical intercourse. There’s a whole slew of emotional aspects, as well as it allows partners to be vulnerable and emotionally open with each other. When something doesn’t feel right or there is a sense of dread when thinking of this topic something might be up.

Doing Only Group Dates

Date night is wonderful, and going on group dates is good as well. But it’s one thing to dabble in both and another to only do group dates. When people are doing this a lot, it can be a sign that you or your partner could be a “third wheel” to a double date.

In essence, doing double dates all the time replaces the traditional dates and can spell danger.

Gut Feeling Is Acting Up

Our gut feeling is incredible in that when something feels off it will let us know. That much is true when it comes to something off with a relationship as well. Our body will register that imbalance and tell us, “hey, something is up.”

Could be a hunch or a gut instinct, but as the saying goes, if there is smoke, there is a fire.