5 Reasons You Might Have Been Ghosted After a First Date (2 of 3)

2. They weren’t attracted to you

It is admittedly difficult to accept that someone would ghost us because they don’t think we’re cute enough for them. After all, they saw your photos and decided you were attractive enough to communicate with and even meet, and yet once they actually saw you in real life, they just like “meh.”

How to put it into perspective – Unless you are a supermodel, people will not universally lust for you. Likewise, you can certainly recall times when somebody thought you were hot stuff, but you didn’t find them attractive. Just move on, be patient, and keep on trying.

3. You didn’t have the right personality

To be clear, this doesn’t mean you’re boring or a jerk. It’s just that there are certain personalities that they feel they mesh better with. Would it have been better if they had provided you with feedback so that you can improve next time you go on a date with somebody? Sure. But the whole reason they ghosted you is because they aren’t mature enough to level with you.

How to put it into perspective – If they don’t find you to be compatible, are you really missing out on anything? We don’t think so. Furthermore, who would want to be with somebody who acts the way he/she does?