How to Keep Your Guy Happy: 6 Tips (2 of 4)

2. Relationships are always built on mutual respect

How can you make him feel better? The most important step is to listen to his feelings and express sympathy. Giving him a good boost to his ego isn’t a bad thing, so compliment him from time to time, especially when you’re in the company of others. You should also recognize that he’s not a perfect guy; he will make mistakes. But it doesn’t mean he always needs to be called out if he does something that irritates you. If he has a passion — whether it is a hobby or something related to his work — do everything possible to encourage it. It will help motivate him, and in turn you will both be happy. By the way, since we’re talking about mutual respect, he also has a responsibility to support you when you’re having a bad day.

3. Honest is the best policy

When it comes to relationships, every couple has their own definition of honesty. You might not be somebody who asks your guy questions, especially as it relates to things like his past relationships. This might seem personal, but maybe it is important to him, so be willing to be straightforward about it. But it doesn’t mean you have to divulge every single detail about your past. Likewise, if you happen to be a social butterfly who likes to go out on occasion but he never knows where you are, it could lead to mistrust. So if you’ve got plans with some of your colleagues after work, take a moment to let him know.