How to Create the Most Positive Vibes in Your Relationship (2 of 5)

2. Set mutual goals

We’re always looking for ways to enhance our lives. It could come in the form of learning a new skill, giving up a vice such as drinking or smoking, or taking up jogging. When you and your partner set goals together, it creates positive vibes because the end result creates more satisfaction. Painting allows you to unleash your talents. Jogging releases endorphins. Quitting alcohol improves your physical and mental health. And since you’re in it together, you offer each other a strong support system.

3. Boost his self-esteem

When you’re among a group of friends, let them know how proud you are of his much-deserved job promotion. When it’s just the two of you, ask him how he became so handsome. Praising your partner serves two important purposes. First, it makes him feel better about himself, and thus he’s much happier. Second, if you show appreciation for what he does for you, he’ll be more likely to do it again, making you happier. It’s a win-win situation, really.