10 Really Surprising Facts About Dating In Your 50s (5 of 6)

You Appreciate Compatibility Over Chemistry

When younger people fall in love, attraction, infatuation, and passion are feelings that allow for that initial spark. Although it feels great, it is short-lived and unstable. Older people, on the other hand, place a premium on compatibility, in which shared values, communication styles, and life goals allow the relationship to thrive. Compatibility is about being on the same page, which makes it easier to resolve conflict and avoid issues that often doom relationships, such as money management.

You Value Quality Time Instead of Constant Entertainment

Trips to the movies, amusement parks, and concerts define the dating experience when you’re young, but in your 50s, the focus is on spending quality time with your partner without any of those distractions. Sure, you might catch a flick with them occasionally, but ultimately it’s about the companionship, not the entertainment choices.