There is no better experience than falling in love with someone you have a strong connection with. When you’re with them, you savor every moment together. When you are apart, the mere thought of seeing them again fills you with excitement. As wonderful as these feelings are, it’s important to remember that love can cloud our judgement. It’s very easy to overreact, particularly when you’re convinced (perhaps prematurely) that you’ve found your soulmate. It’s important to take a measured approach once you start a relationship because, let’s be honest, you don’t know much about each other yet, and you would rather not do or say something to scare them off. With that in mind, here are 7 tips that will ensure things don’t get weird when you’re starting a relationship.
1. Don’t be in a rush
Don’t treat the start of the relationship with a sense of urgency. The fact that the first date was wildly successful isn’t a signal that you should be introducing them to your friends and family. And goodness, please hold off on planning a romantic trip to Paris. We know you’re excited and want so much to demonstrate your commitment to them, but just relax and be patient. Use the first few dates to really get to know your partner better. Savor the moments you share together, and wait until there’s a level of stability before showing them off to the important people in your life.