What Truly Matters in Relationships: 8 Insights That Change Everything (2 of 5)

2. Compatibility Is Overrated

There is a false belief that relationships can only be successful if the couple have common interests or share similar personality traits. According to Pransky, mutual understanding and respect are far more important than compatibility. Think about all the people who walk away from a relationship because they fear their prospective partner is too different. What they fail to understand is how these differences can add so much to the relationship. They provide a perfect opportunity to learn and grow. With an open mind and a bit of patience, there’s no reason why a quiet, detail-loving introvert can’t find the love of their life in the form of an expressive extrovert!

3. You Don’t Need to “Fix” Each Other

The desire to “improve” or otherwise change a partner is a trap many people fall into. Often, trying to fix others speaks less about that individual and more about our own dissatisfaction. Ultimately, it will only create a divide in the relationship. Pranksy reminds us that everyone possesses inner wisdom and is fully capable of confronting their own challenges. So rather than fixing, be there for them and show empathy. Your support is what allows them to better themselves.