Rather than using dating apps for the purpose of finding someone to form deep and meaningful connections with, the emotional drainage dater uses the platforms to air their personal grievances, taking advantage of the compassionate nature of their matches in order to gain sympathy but without the intention of ever actually getting to know them. This ultimately leads to frustration and exhaustion on the part of the match since the time and effort they put into what they hope becomes a relationship doesn’t go anywhere.
5. Breadcrumbing
The trend of breadcrumbing—giving someone just enough attention to string them along, but never committing to the relationship—isn’t new, but it has certainly gotten worse in 2025. With so many people placing their careers and personal growth ahead of healthy relationships, the emotional availability needed to sustain meaningful connections has dwindled. As a result, many now view relationships as optional accessories rather than core components of a fulfilling life.
