The 8 Distinct Forms of Love According to the Ancient Greeks (3 of 5)

4. Ludus — Playful Love

Do you have any friendships that are characterized by silliness, flirtation, teasing, and guffaws upon guffaws? Congratulations! The love that you have for each other is Ludus! Essentially, it’s the friends with whom you savor the joys of companionship without serious commitment. Because it lacks much investment, it lacks the kind of depth and stability that you’d see in a close friendship, but it sure is spontaneous and fun!

5. Pragma — Enduring Love

Pragma is perhaps the most sophisticated form of love. It’s the complete opposite of puppy love to be sure, as it is deeply mature, going beyond fleeing passion and not built on mere emotions. This is the type of love that develops over time, and is most commonly featured in stable marriages where both parties invest effort, make compromise, and exhibit patience. They find a way to navigate through troubled waters and come out stronger as a result. Through this love, you are able to grow old together.