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The 8 Distinct Forms of Love According to the Ancient Greeks

Love inspires corny but cute pop music, epic novels, and great theater—but contrary to what you might have believed, it’s not always romantic or dramatic. It can come in far more subtle forms, such as the trust of a close friend, affection for family, or caring for yourself. In English, we use one word—“love”—for all these feelings. But the ancient Greeks saw love as far more nuanced. In fact, they identified eight distinct types, each reflecting a unique way love can appear in the ways we interact with others. Here’s a look at those eight forms of love.

1. Eros — Romantic Love

Named after the Greek god of love and fertility, Eros best sums up your initial feelings for someone when you’ve fallen madly in love with them. It is nothing short of passionate and intense. There’s a deep physical attraction and desire for sexual intimacy. And so, so much lust and infatuation going on. However, while Eros feels like a beautiful thing, it is also impulsive and fleeting. Simple put: it is unsustainable unless you balance things out by developing an emotional connection with your partner.