When you don’t establish boundaries at the start of the relationship, it is guaranteed to end in failure. Although you want to give your partner unconditional love, you must also recognize your own needs. This is why it is essential that you discuss things like how much you’ll spend together versus time apart, and your relationship goals. Addressing these things right away will help you avoid potential misunderstandings and conflict in the long term.
7. Substance Abuse Issues Arise
If you find that your partner is more than just a casual drinker, find out the reasons why. Are they doing it to relieve stress, for instance? Is it something they absolutely need to get through the day? Someone with a problem with alcohol deserves compassion, but at the same time they have to be willing to admit they have an addiction and are willing to get help. Showing support and addressing the issue together by attending couples counseling would be a good idea. But unfortunately for many couples it becomes an obstacle that cannot be overcome.
