4. They Show Flashes Of A Toxic Personality From the Beginning
When you first date somebody, they tend to be on their best behavior because they want you to see that they are a normal, laid-back person. So if during this phase they are still showing signs of inappropriate behavior, you should walk away because it will only get worse and perhaps even abusive. Some examples could be ignoring your boundaries on a first date, bossing you around, or even acting obnoxious towards the waitstaff at a restaurant.
5. You Do Not Share The Same Financial Philosophy
One of the biggest problems facing couples is finances. So if you and your partner have different spending and saving habits, be aware that once you’re an established couple these differences will emerge front and center as you’d now be dealing with paying rent, utilities, and making major spending decisions. Setting rules and sticking to them takes hard work and a willingness to cooperate. If you can’t, prepare for one nonstop argument about money.
