On the surface it seems as though you and your partner are the perfect fit. You might share the same sense of humor, for example. Or you enjoy the same hobbies or share some common beliefs. But in spite of this, the fact that you are constantly fighting is a clear indication that the relationship is full of instability. When the relationship comes to an end, you do learn about what you can tolerate and what your wants and needs in the relationship are.
It brings out your worst impulses
Another key element of a stable relationship is that the couple find ways to grow stronger together. This includes doing and saying things that lead to positive affirmation. Karmic relationships, on the other hand, possess none of this. Instead, it is characterized by jealousy, possessiveness, and paradoxically doing everything to sabotage the relationship even as the couple fear losing each other.
