Admit it girls, you all do it. You can blame men for it all you want but when push comes to show you love playing mind games and ignoring a guy to increase your chances of getting his attention. And while we’re being honest, it really is something that works on a certain type of guy. Whether that’s the type of guy you want to commit to is a different story altogether, but since you’re already reading this, I think we both know the answer.
Anyway, without further ado, here’s a few pointers on how to ignore the right way so you actually increase how much he wants to spend time with you and not push him further away.
Is He Busy or Not Available
Here’s where your first trick to ignoring someone comes into play: wait a while before trying to figure out what is going on in his life. Maybe he’s just super swamped and can’t make time for you right now. That doesn’t have to be a major issue, so don’t turn it into one. Whether you’re sticking by a one-day or three-day rule, it doesn’t really matter, but just be reasonable. If someone’s busy, that probably isn’t going to change overnight. If it does, well, they really aren’t all that busy. You can’t be busy for 24 hours. Unless it’s a pattern where someone is busy every Friday because they don’t do anything at work for the rest of the week, but that’s not something that should be impacting your relationship or communication.
View 3 slides
The Trick To Ignoring a Guy to Get His Attention 