8 Signs You’re Going on a Date Out of Pity (2 of 5)

2. The chemistry is nonexistent

The reason you’d typically go on a date with somebody is because you felt some initial chemistry when you first met them. There’s a certain amount of connectedness, and you are eager to find out more about their lives, interests, and everything else that makes them tick. But if you get the sense that they’re a boring person or quickly realize you have nothing in common, but stick with it, you’re definitely on a pity date. 

3. Too many moments of awkwardness

No matter how good a date is going, there are bound to be awkward moments of silence or topics that your date might find less interesting to talk about. It could be due to shyness or needing some time to warm up to someone you don’t know. But if your date is trying their best to keep the conversation going but you aren’t putting in any effort yourself, it’s pretty obvious you don’t want to be there.