15 Blunt And Explicitly True Reasons Why You Got Friendzoned (5 of 5)

You are well aware of each other’s flaws

When you have been friends with someone for quite a long time, you both become well aware of your demons and your control over them. This reason is sufficient enough for people to reject a prospect. Your friend (crush) is well aware of your flaws; however, he is not confident enough to take the risk of coming in a relationship with you. While you know the worst of them, they too know the worst of you, which ultimately makes you both uncomfortable with each other. At every junction of relationship henceforth, comparisons may be drawn out that ultimately spoil the relationship.

This is the reason why in today’s blind dating world, neither of the two parties are concerned to know anything about each other. They venture out on an adventure to self-discover each other and get to know along the way. Initially, they love each other, however, with each passing day, they are encountered with more and more flaws with each other and hence, it leads to a breakup.

Thus, in such situations it is better to remain friends. Not always romance triumphs over friendship.

His Lack Of Self Worth Is Holding Him Back

In the dating game, people tend to be very self-centric; however, not always it has something to do with their well-being. Many times the guy has low self-esteem that leads him to believe that he is not worthy of the love and care he is receiving. You and that guy have been friends for a long time. You spend time together, crack lame jokes, help each other in copying a test-sheet, overall you are displaying a bright ray of affection, care, & respect for each other. You are well aware of each other’s situation and are in good understanding with each other.

However, after a few months, you have developed feelings towards him, which you duly confess to him. But being the Jack he is, he gets startled and in a fit of panic denies any of his self-worth. He believes that you deserve someone better than him, or he doesn’t deserve your friendship. He insists on remaining friends, as he is afraid that he’ll lose this cherished friendship. Nevertheless, you may inspire him to give this a chance, which he may try. However, all of this will be unsuccessful if he doesn’t win over his demons.

You Are Just Really Not His Type

Sometimes it’s wise to accept that you two are just not compatible. You both are great friends, respectful, share food, hang out all the time, nonetheless, some people are just not meant to be together. You both may feel attracted to each other, but due to your past friendship, you are unable to cross that physical barrier. You have a personality of a dragon while that of your friend is that of a tiger. Both are fierce, and fearless, and admired upon. They can’t come together to form a single entity, rather they can create a world around themselves showcasing their self-grandeur.

We should identify friendship and romance as two completely different entities, until then – differences are bound to occur. Friendship can be merged into romance if only the people involved are respectful and loving towards each other. When people fail to understand this difference, they back away from probable relationships, thus maintaining their streak in the friendzone.