24 Alarming Signs Your Man Is Cheating (4 of 5)

No Happiness

Another notable sign is the amount of happiness you two have with each other. If there is a lack of it within the relationship it stands to reason that you or him will be compelled to look for it outside of the relationship.

Change In Stories

It’s worth paying attention to the stories that are being told whenever your partner is away. Often times if he’s hiding something, there will be facts that’ll contradict his story. Maybe he told you he was out with his lads for the weekend and later in the conversation discusses how the double bed he was in was uncomfortable.

Unless it’s tradition for him and his lads to sleep all together, that’s really suspect. Even if that is the case, it’s kind of odd.

Shift In Sexual Appetite

This doesn’t necessarily mean whether there is more or less sex but rather his sexual tastes have shifted. If you’ve been having sex enough, you know generally what sort of stuff he’s into and usually does. Where this becomes suspicious is when he does things suddenly outside of the norm.

Of course this could be chalked up to wanting to do something different to spice things up, but it’s worth asking him. If he gets defensive or panics about it, then be concerned about it.

All of this being said, when there is significantly less sex, this can be a sign too. When a man is sexually satisfied, most men typically won’t be looking to be satisfied again. All in all, these particular signs depend on how much sex is had in the relationship. After all, sex amongst couples naturally dries up over time.

Selective In Financial History

This one depends on whether or not you share everything financially or whether he shares general information about it. While that’s alright, it becomes suspicious when suddenly he stops doing this or is trying to be more secretive about it.

In terms of bank statements, it’s all about a pattern. If you have access to bank statements, check to see if a lot of money is being sent to a specific bank account or to a PayPal account.

Over Explains Things

Having your honest reasons for things is alright but there is a limit to how much needs to be explained. If he’s providing way too much information to justify his actions, it’s something to be worried about. Of course, this depends on his attitude. If he’s always like this then this isn’t a cause for concern.