These 11 Signs Scream That Your Feelings Aren’t Mutual Anymore (3 of 3)

 

 

They mostly cancel plans with you

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They proclaim themselves to be unromantic or inexpressive and rarely do anything like setting up a date to keep the fire in the relationship alive. Alright. Not a big worry. But they can, at least, be present when you plan something to spend some quality time with them. Showing up too late as if they are doing you a favor or not showing up at all isn’t the kind of a lover you can be with for too long.

 

 

You long for their support

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A boyfriend or a girlfriend shouldn’t be there just for making love to you or for the sake of some pictures to post on social media. A lover who supports you to achieve bigger and better in life and aids in both your personal and professional growth is the ideal one to be with. So, if you don’t see the encouragement you endow them with coming back to me, maybe it’s time to call it quits with them.

 

 

They don’t bother sharing their important experiences with you

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Sharing of major events from the past or the exciting happenings in the present brings a couple closer, improves their understanding of one another, and deepens the bond between them. What else would you do not dinner dates if not that? Gobble the food and head for home? Why? Is the person sitting opposite to you not worth your attention?

 

 

They get furious if you leave your things at their home

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You forgetting your stuff at theirs is no reason for them to lose temper. When people have a strong bond, they tend to treat each other’s belongings or places as their own. It is nothing to be pissed off over. Truth be told, it signifies that you are getting more comfortable with them. However, if your partner doesn’t like it, it’s a clear signal that they aren’t yet ready to take things forward with you. They want anything that reminds them of you out of their sight.

 

 

They are reluctant to talk about the relationship

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When someone shows an unwillingness to discuss the future of the relationship, there’s a high chance they feel you aren’t their ‘the one.’ There can be no other reason for someone to avoid such talks. After a point of time, it’s obvious that you will be desirous of knowing where you two are headed and they should be too. Not having accomplished their career goals doesn’t explain their irritability when you bring up such questions. You haven’t downright asked them to have kids.