The 23 Mistakes Will End Up Hurting Your Game In The Dating World (4 of 5)

You let conversations go one-sided

We all firmly believe that the first impression is the last but this doesn’t mean that you will go on talking about yourself on your first date. You come out as too self-centered and arrogant. On the other hand, asking too many questions to your date without revealing anything about yourself also isn’t a good idea. According to studies, the best conversations happen when you talk about yourself a bit and then have a follow-up question from the other person. This makes the conversation go on without getting boring for both of you.

You let others’ expectations get to your head

When meeting someone new, we feel a need to prove ourselves to them. We focus too much on what they want and expect from us, forgetting about what we are looking for in that relationship. Honestly should be the pillar of relation and not expectations and fake behavior. You won’t mess things up and will get the desired attention if healthy and honest communications happen. Stay true to yourself and your values.

The limits to which you settle yourself

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, but how much will you give up for love? But the question is “Should you give up so much”? The fact that you will be left to face your fears alone in itself is the biggest fear which makes us lose one, two and sometimes a dozen needs. This only promotes low self-esteem and in most cases, a recurring pattern of people going on an unwanted tangent of finding a partner.

You’re Not the one who shares their feelings

Speaking about your feelings is a necessity because no one else is going to know it through magic or hints that you think you are expressing. Expressing your true feelings might be difficult because you don’t know if your potential partner also feels the same way or no. But, hoping that they will understand without saying it out loud will hurt more. Once you communicate, then only new opportunities will be open, but if you don’t, possibilities will never unfold. So, start letting people know about how you feel and don’t expect them to understand through signs and hints.

Where You See Yourselves in the long run

First of let’s see how you are viewing the whole picture. Do you take it way seriously that you will jump off a cliff or are you thinking to drift in the clouds hoping for days to be filled with sunshine? Either way, dating passively won’t end well for you. You, more than anyone else, know what you want and what you are looking for, so always have this thought in your mind when you move forward in a relationship. This clear picture will help you differentiate along the line who is right for you and who isn’t.