10 Signs That Your Chemistry Is Real

One of the greatest feelings with dating is when you go on a date with someone and you feel a spark. A jolt in your body that they could be “the one”. While they may not be “the one” that jolt you felt is real and many people call that chemistry or sexual tension.

In order to distinguish between the two, below we’re going to be talking about some other signs that can suggest you have good chemistry together. These signs are based on neurologists findings, so expect them to be accurate and reliable.

But before jumping into this do note that it’s okay if you don’t feel that jolt right away. The beginning of any relationship – whether it’s long or short-term – will have uncertainty around it. The beginning stages of any relationship is determining whether or not both of you are attracted to one another.

So keep this in mind as you look over these signs of solid chemistry.


Strong Eye Contact

While looking into people’s eyes can suggest a wide variety of things, one of those suggestions is that the two of you have good chemistry. When you find yourself looking into someone’s eyes and you don’t feel like you need to look away from them, it’s clear you’re into them.



Subtle Touching

A touch on the knee, brushing hands, any sort of light touches. It might not be obvious as an arm around the shoulder or holding hands, but in those moments, you could imagine being okay if the contact lasted a little longer. This is a sign of chemistry at work when you feel that urge and don’t mind at all with the person being in your personal space.



That Feeling When It’s The Two Of You In The Room

If you’ve been dating for long, you’ll be able to get a good feeling for how you two feel when it’s the two of you in a room. But where one starts to experience the chemistry is when those same emotions spring forth in crowded or public places. When you feel that pull towards the other person, it’s clear you know.