Here Is The Answer To What Went Wrong With Your Previous Relationship (5 of 5)

Incompatible Priorities

The problem of clashing priorities is faced by every couple out there. It has nothing to do with how crazy they are for each other or what phase of relationship they are in. Did you not see your parents fighting? It’s all right and totally normal. Your partner might be putting you first, but you might accord your career the highest priority. This is nothing to argue over. A tad bit of maturity is all that’s needed to tackle such issue.

Forever Suspicious

Trust is the building block for any relationship. You can’t expect your partner to be calm and easy-going if you are constantly keeping a watch on every activity of theirs or wanting to check their phone every other day. If you know they love you then trust them with all your heart and mind. Even if you are certain of being two-timed, accost them and ask directly instead of becoming a part-time detective.

Religious Differences

Your religion and cultural background do have an influence on your personality and the way you look at and approach situations. If you and your partner follow different religions, your beliefs are bound to be distinct and, at times, could be contradictory leading to heated arguments. This shouldn’t be a major problem if you both make genuine attempts to understand the other one and be ready to compromise.

Vulnerability Stalemate

You must be wondering what this vulnerability stalemate is. It occurs when neither of you want to be the first one to apologize or to admit that you are hurt by your partner’s act. You do it out of fear of coming across as vulnerable or emotionally weak. Couples also expect from each other that their partner should be able to read their minds and act accordingly. This just complicates things, making them difficult to sort out. Expressing your needs and desires and being open can relieve both of you of all the stress and unwanted drama.

Abuse

Abuse of any kind and to any extent must not be tolerated at any cost. If your relationship ended because of your partner being verbally or physically abusive, you should thank your stars and be happy you are no longer with that person. You are supposed to be at peace with your lover and not scared or traumatized. And, if you were the one inflicting abuse on your ex, you seriously need to change if you don’t want to die single.

It must be clear to you by now why your ex ended it with you. However, this doesn’t mean you should start regretting your decisions. You cannot go back in time and change anything. Just keep these in mind next time you fall in love with someone.