25 Relationship Pieces Of Advice Which You Can Safely Turn A Deaf Ear To (4 of 5)

“Fights must always be avoided”

Keeping every tiny detail that bothers you to yourself would only make you irritable and can be ruinous for the relationship. We know getting into a nasty fight with your significant other doesn’t sound so romantic, but no relationship can survive if the members are not at mental peace. Making them understand your concerns calmly can be a sought-after alternative.

“Checking their phone is your right”

Nobody fancies being spied on. And no, it’s not casual or fine for you to take your partner’s phone to read their conversations with others. They may not say anything to you initially, but it does hurt to learn that you are not being trusted and your words are not being relied upon.

“It’s not jealousy, it’s their love for you”

You will dismantle your relationship if you turn green-eyed every time your partner is out with a colleague or spends longer texting on their phone. They are with you because they find you better than the rest. Your constant eavesdropping or losing your temper over nothing will only push them away from you.

“You should get hitched”

It is you who has been dating this person. Only you two know if you understand one another well enough to enter into a lifelong commitment by getting married. Do it only if every nerve in your body tells you that this is the one. Never let anyone else decide that for you or even influence your decision in any way.

“20s is the apt age to tie the knot”

It is no shocker why people advise you to be settled down by the time you reach the thirties. It is the phase when you have a high libido and have also reached financial stability. On the other hand, higher age can make it harder to conceive. But, if you haven’t found your ‘the one’ yet, it’s for your best that you wait instead of saying ‘I do’ half-heartedly.