Some Simple Everyday Things That Are Actually Quite Rude (8 of 8)

Other Rude Things To Consider

There are a few other scenarios that are worth considering as rude as well. Here they are:

• • • First is asking someone if they have kids. While this may be appropriate among family or friends, it’s not good with strangers or people you know little about. It can seem like an innocent question, but this question is also digging into personal lives deeper than usual.

The fact you are bringing up kids can cause harm to people as you’re not sure if the person or their partner went through a miscarriage, is struggling to get pregnant, or doesn’t want to defend their stance on not having kids.

• • • Second is sighing. Yes you can sigh when responding to distressing stimuli – but it can cause problems to those on the receiving end. Unless you’re sighing to yourself, chances are the sighing can come off as passive-aggressive or offensive.
    • On the note of body language, crossing your arms can also be rude too. We’re used to it as a way of keeping ourselves warm during a cold day, but it also gives the impression you’re standoffish.

Crossing your arms can be intimidating to others. Instead, work on putting your hands in your pockets or on your sides.

• • • Finally is making plans and expecting others to split the bill. Whether it’s a date or time with friends, expecting the bill to be split can be difficult. It’s considered rude because not every person is in the position to split the bill.

You have no idea whether your date or your friends can afford covering a portion of the bill. By expecting that to happen, it’s suggesting to the other they have a choice: either spend time with you, or pay for something that they need in their life (i.e. rent, groceries, etc.). Be mindful of people’s financial standings. Not their class, but whether they can help cover part of the bill or not.