17 Parenting Myths That People Have Been Blindly Following For Years! (3 of 4)

 

 

Loving your children beyond a certain point will make them codependent

A lot of people actually believe that if you are being too kind, affectionate, or gentle with your children, you will only end up causing more problems for them. However, experts don’t agree with this.

Experts are of the opinion that you cannot be “too loving” to your kids. Kids need nurturing, they need support, guidance, and they need a parent who can understand their emotions. This not only helps them in emotional regulation, but also teaches them problem-solving skills that they use throughout their life. In fact, experts believe that it is very important for a parent to share a good bond and attachment with their child in order to help them with their emotional and social development.

 

 

Babies only cry when they are hungry, tired, or sick

While everyone would like to have a checklist of things that makes it easy to understand why your baby is crying, it is next to impossible. According to experts, babies cry for a lot of different reasons – and sometimes, for no reason at all! Therefore, it is very difficult – almost next to impossible – to figure out why your baby is crying at any point in time.

 

 

“Love your kid” makes parenting an easy task

While loving your kid is certainly an easy thing to do, parenting them is certainly not. In fact, parenting doesn’t come naturally to most people, according to experts. While everyone loves their kids, parenting them involves a whole other level of understanding your child’s unique needs and catering to them accordingly. Since every kid is different, it becomes a difficult task to relate to a child. While it doesn’t mean it is unpleasant, it is still a task for all practical reasons.

 

 

Easy babies grow up to become difficult children

A lot of people are of the belief that if your six-week, happy baby who sleeps peacefully all night is all set to become horror the moment she or he grows a bit older. However, experts find this completely baseless. According to experts, a lot of kids are easy personalities naturally, and that certainly doesn’t mean that they will turn out to be a terror later on. In fact, most babies who are easy at the beginning turn out to be even more so when they grow slightly older.

 

 

Every bad behavior needs to be punished

Even the easiest of kids are likely to misbehave at some point or another. So, the belief that as a parent you should be ready to dole out punishments or limit your child’s TV time every single time your kid does something bad, is completely misguided and can actually backfire.

According to most psychotherapists, if you haven’t established a set of ground rules for your kids to follow, then they are not really misbehaving. You are just holding your child responsible for a standard you never actually set in clear terms. In such a scenario, your kid is not learning anything. Instead, experts suggest that parents should talk to their child and explain it to them why a certain kind of behavior is not considered good, in a gentle and calm manner.