17 Most Common Arguments Couples Have During The Holidays (4 of 4)

What gifts should be bought for the family members

Gifts are surely the most debated and discussed things during the holidays. Even if you are lucky enough to find common ground with your partner on the budget, you still have to compromise on the gifts that should be given to every person on the list. You should avoid this discussion and instead, split your shopping list in half so that both of you can buy things accordingly.

Where to spend the holidays?

Imagine this scenario: Your family lives on the West Coast, your partner’s family lives on the East Coast. You, on the other hand, live right in the middle – equidistant from both families. So, the million-dollar question is – where do you spend the holidays?

This is one of the most common arguments that couples have during the holiday season. All you want to do is just spend some time with both your families, and there doesn’t seem to be a way out. Practically, there isn’t a proper solution to this, and you have to compromise. The best you can do is celebrate every alternate year at both your families – a win-win!

And finally, holidays are supposed to be that time of the year when you just rewind and share love, compassion, and happiness with those around you. And there’s no love without compromise. So no matter what tricky situation you find yourself into, talking to your spouse in an honest manner and reaching common ground with ensuring you both can enjoy the holidays rather than fight and ruin this quality time.

Happy Holidays!