A List Of 20 Important Things You Should Know Before Your Remarriage, According To Experts (2 of 4)

 

 

Your sex life is going to change

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Relationship experts often point out how our sexual connections are similar to a zebra – each one has their own unique stripes. It is, therefore, quite understandable that your next spouse will have his or her own preferences and interests that are not going to be similar to your previous spouse. You are going to start a new life, a new routine with your new spouse, and that also includes your sex life. You should be ready for the fact that you will find a new personality in your bedroom, and even your own sexual connections will change after you remarry.

 

 

Odds are stacked against you

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Well, it is a fact – the odds are indeed against you. According to the United States Census Bureau, close to 70 to 80 percent of the people who marry for a second time end up divorcing their partners. However, despite the odds not in your favor, you should follow every important relationship advice shared here as a good start for sure.

 

 

Your new spouse might feel slightly jealous

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At times, a new spouse can often get a feeling as if they are there to save your life in a way. However, when the previous marriage wasn’t such a terrible one, there might be some form of jealousy of your spouse in the new marriage. It is a completely normal thing to happen, and very human too. So, the best way to deal with it is to talk to your spouse and communicate honestly.

 

 

You families might be more overbearing than the first time around

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When you finally decide to get remarried, you are also joining another family. However, because your previous marriage didn’t exactly work out, your new family or your own family might be even more overbearing than they were when you married for the first time, to make sure this marriage doesn’t end up as the previous one did.

 

 

Don’t compare things to your previous marriage

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You should never be under the false impression that since you have remarried, every memory from your previous marriage is automatically going to disappear from your memory. In fact, you will often find yourself reminiscing memories from your previous marriage, and at times, even comparing it to your present one.

This is a completely natural thing, according to relationship experts. People often change and grow, but discarding every bit of memory of their past isn’t possible for a person. After all, if you completely erase every bit of memory regarding your first marriage and don’t think about it, it isn’t possible for you to avoid certain mistakes that you committed in your first marriage.