10 Things People Over 50 Understand Better Than Anyone Else (5 of 6)

8. Speaking frankly is how you get your message across

Those who lack life experience are prone to dancing around an issue instead of saying what they need to say. These guessing games harm their relationships and make it difficult to solve their problems. By contrast, those who’ve reached 50 feel comfortable enough in who they are to speak directly with others. Don’t confuse “direct” with “rude” either. We are honest with our words but find tactful ways to express them.

9. Financial wellness is the key to emotional wellness

When you are young, the question is, “Which type of beer should I spend my last $20 on?” But once you’re in a position where you have dependents (such as children or a stay-at-home spouse) whose lives depend on your ability to manage your money well, it motivates you to develop strong budgeting habits. In your older years, it becomes so obvious that when you have your financial ducks in a row, your relationships and emotional mindset become stable.