In our early adulthood, we are more likely to offer unsolicited advice to others thinking we’re being helpful. But at some point we realize nobody appreciates being told what to do anymore than we like others giving us advice we didn’t ask for. Instead, we come to understand that the best way to help others is to give them suggestions, but make it clear that they are free to choose whichever path is best for them.
7. We become less critical of others (and ourselves)
Another benefit of getting older is that we recognize that nothing is gained either by putting others down or dwelling on the mistakes we’ve made. The better route is to encourage others with positive feedback and ask ourselves what we can learn from our own mistakes.
