6 Common Reasons Why A Man Would Leave The Woman He Loves (2 of 4)

2. The drama is endless

It goes without saying that guys desire relationships that make them feel good. This does not mean they will get up and leave the instant the relationship goes through difficulties. But as time goes by, if the relationship is experiencing more bad days than good, he will eventually reach a point where he can’t handle the negativity anymore. It could be that she is going through a period of depression but ignores his advice to seek therapy. Or the couple are fighting constantly without any resolution. As much as he loves her, he will eventually decide he’s better off without all that drama. 

3. Conflicting goals that can’t be resolved

In an ideal world, a couple’s life goals would align almost perfectly. But this isn’t the reality. Humans have different interests and want to find their own paths in life. For instance, the guy might want kids, but she doesn’t. He would rather work hard now and retire at 50 whereas she wants to live for the moment, even if it means putting off retirement for another decade. He wants to settle in his quiet hometown while she dreams of moving to a hustling and bustling city. 

As soon as it is clear that the relationship has become serious, it is time to sit down and hash all of this out. If the two of you discover that your goals differ significantly and you can’t find compromise, he might conclude that breaking up is the only solution.