6 Likely Reasons Why Girls Ghost You And Then Want Back In Your Life (3 of 4)

4. She Got Dumped/Ghosted Herself

She went on a few dates with you, and then suddenly she stopped returning your calls and messages. Chances are, she ended up getting into a relationship with somebody she liked more, got her heart broken, and now she’s come crawling back to you. She’s looking for attention, comfort and love, something you made the mistake of giving her before. Her self-esteem is shot, and she is using you to convince herself that she is worth something. You’re as good as soon as she finds the next guy. 

5. She’s Seeking Attention

When you first began communicating with her, she was playing hard to get. You would start the conversation, she would respond a few times, and then stop. A few days later you’d send another message to restart the discussion she’d respond, and then stop again. Then a couple of weeks later, she sends you a message out of nowhere to ask how you’re doing. This is a clear sign that she was craving male attention. But this doesn’t mean you actually have a future together. Eventually she’s going to ghost you permanently once she’s found a new guy to get attention from.