9 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Stay Friends With Your Ex (2 of 5)

2. You will hesitate to get into a new relationship

By staying close friends with your ex, you’re closing yourself off from new relationship opportunities. It could be that you’re afraid to hurt your ex. Or you still feel a certain investment in them, even though there’s no going back. It’s just best to flip the page and start a new chapter in your life.

3. It would be disrespectful to new potential partners

Imagine going on a date and then sharing your assessment of the evening with your ex. Talk about an awkward conversation! Your ex will want to know how the two of them compare, the date’s weaknesses, and any other juicy gossip. Let’s be honest, that’s really not fair to your date, especially if it turns into a long-term relationship. After all, how would you like it if your ex went around telling his/her new dates about all of your flaws?