10 Questions To Consider Before Dating Someone Seriously (2 of 6)

2. Have I truly gotten over my ex?

This is perhaps the most important question of all. If you still hold out hope that your ex will come back into your life, you are not ready for a new relationship. It is completely selfish, not to mention unfair to your new potential partner. As a rule, never bring somebody new into your life until you are ready to move on from your past.

3. What were some of the successes in my previous relationship?

Even though your previous relationships ultimately failed, hopefully you can recognize some of the positive moments and use them for insight when exploring a new relationship. However, if you struggle with this, think about the ways in which your friends or family members have been able to maintain a solid relationship with their partners. They might be able to offer you advice.