20 Important Questions You Should Ask Your Crush (4 of 4)

“How do you spend a typical Saturday?”

Carrying on with the previous question, try and ask what they like to do on a Saturday evening.

The answer to this question doesn’t just let you know what they usually do on a weekend, but also tells a lot about the kind of person they are. These types of questions also help you figure out potential deal-breakers. Does your crush even like to spend the weekend or just stay at home? If so, would you like to date someone like that?

“How would you rank priorities such as friends, work, life, and family in relation to one another?”

This one right here is quite a tricky question because if you find yourself non-aligned with your crush’s preference, it is a sign for you to end this potential relationship. However, if there are potential similarities in how you prioritize certain things in life, it might be a good match for you to stick together. Miller points out that values are a great topic to bond over and are also a reflection of a person’s character.

“Who do you like more – dogs or cats?”

Another one of those one-word answer questions, most people tend to have quite strong opinions on whether they like dogs or cats. Miller says that for a topic such as a pet, it is indeed very shocking to find people having such polarizing views. While it may seem a rather innocent question to ask, you can use this insight to see if you two are compatible in terms of what kind of pets you like. Also, you can have conversations around the same, and share cute videos, memes, and stories. The focus here is to find common ground that strengthens the bond with your crush.

“What is your idea of an ideal fake sick day?”

Let’s be honest – we all at some point pretend to be sick to enjoy a day off. It would be interesting to know what your crush would like to do on a hypothetical fake sick day off. You can discuss ideas and build a conversation around that, says Miller.

“What is your most embarrassing moment?”

Other than fears, secrets are what tend to strengthen the bond between two people. By asking this question, you are already conveying your intention of having a deeper understanding of your crush’s life. And there can be nothing better than knowing about your crush’s most embarrassing moment! By sharing such info, you and your crush are ready to trust each other and have a laugh together. This signifies a deep emotional connection, which is a really good way to start off any relationship, says Indigo Stray Conger, a sex therapist from Colorado.

We hope you won’t have any trouble now keeping the conversation going with your recent crush. Moreover, these questions will also help you get to know them well. The starting phase of any relationship is magical and make sure you enjoy each and every moment to the fullest.