20 Biggest Signs That You Are Just Not In Love With Them Anymore (2 of 4)

You lack topics to talk about

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There are slow moments in every relationship; then, there are tiresome topics to talk about. But if you have nothing to talk about, and an awkward silence surrounds you and your partner then you should definitely take this as a sign that you are losing interest, adds Winter.

It means that you don’t want to explore new things to talk about with your partner; you are just not eager to put in any effort.

 

 

You don’t bother arguing

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The picture is clear enough here; it does not bother you what your partner thinks. Katherine Shorter​, a marriage counselor, says that this means you are already backing out of this relationship. You no longer want to fight because you do not see a future with your current partner.

 

 

You rarely laugh together

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We see old couples still laughing at each other’s jokes; we find it cute and the reason behind them still being together. A relationship cannot be all fun and right all the time but if your relationship has been lacking fun for an extended period, it’s time for you to sit and think about it. Hillary Schoninger, LCSW, a therapist, says that how much a couple laughs together symbolizes how much they like being with each other.

 

 

You are unable to show affection

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While before, you used to be all over your partner; you used to hug, cuddle, or just hold hands all the time, but now you don’t even care to be around them, something must be wrong here, explains Trombetti.

She even states that if you do not feel that spark with your partner anymore, you will cease to be intimate with them with time—another warning sign.

 

 

You’ve stopped sharing

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For a healthy relationship, communication is essential. Couples in a strong relationship are very communicative with each other, says Trombetti. If you ceased to communicate with your partner, it implies that their thoughts no longer interest you, which is a troubling sign for your relationship.