12. You have different ideologies
What may have seemed like something you had no reason to be troubled over at the start is now the leading cause behind all your fights. You thought your love was so strong that any impasses would be settled with patient thinking and careful listening but it is now turning out to be the exact opposite of that. The only solution you reach is closing the topic altogether. How long do you think you can go doing that? You are well aware that the problems you are avoiding require your involvement the most. In the best interest of your relationship, you must reach out to a couples therapist who is trained at training you to be a better spouse.
