Which Type Of Lover Are You? (3 of 4)

The Actor

Similar to the profession itself, the lovers of this type are all talk and nothing else. They make promises, but they never make it a reality. They are masters of saying exactly what you want to hear and nothing more.

These people are fully aware of who they are and are often people who act as someone else. One way to spot these people is to be looking at their actions. If they are constantly asking you what makes you happier and never follows up on it, then you’ve got an actor.

The Adventure Seeker

These people hate monotony and so their goal in relationships is to make them as exciting as possible. While you’d think this is a great boon, it doesn’t always equate to that.

Sure they may want to travel and mix up date night on a regular basis but it’s not beneath them to pick a fight in order to keep themselves entertained.

More often than not though, this type is really good. They’re the kind to shake up date nights with all kinds of ideas and in some cases may go over the top with vacations or other fun activities. The only drawback is when these people get bored as they’ll pick fights.

The Brooding Lover

These are the lovers who are annoyed by just about everything. They’ll find the most trivial part of a relationship and make it a big deal or get annoyed over it. Oftentimes these types like to be left to their own devices.

They value that alone time – which is normal in any typical relationship – however when they are alone, they want it to be exclusive with no exceptions. These types love their personal space and prefer love at a distance.

The Helper

While you’d think helpers are always great, this too has ups and downs. On one hand, these types are always there to help you when you need it. They are okay with sacrificing for your gain.

But there is a limit to how much they’ll do that.

It’s nice when someone reaches out to lend you a hand and help you, but they’ll also use that against you one way or another. It comes off as a selfless act, but it’s often used as a manipulative tool to get you to do something for them afterwards.

The Possessive One

The love you get from this type of person is not questionable. There is no doubt in your mind that in a relationship, this person will love you no matter what. The only catch to this is that there is a ‘but’ in there.

They will love you unconditionally, but it’s due to the fact they think you’ll be seduced by someone else and you’ll leave them.

These are the people who worry about you talking to other people other than them. There are subtle cues like them fidgeting whenever you’re talking to someone else. They’ll also ask you several questions when it’s related to people you’re talking to.

All in all these people have deep trusting issues.