How People Discovered Their Cheating Partner (4 of 5)

A Silver Lining

Going out and partying with your partner can be an exciting way to spend the night. You just want to make sure you’re dating someone faithful! The haze of a club and the influence of alcohol can sway a person who already had infidelity on their mind. This guy was probably wondering where the heck his girl ran off to when he got that text…

On the bright side, at least someone else is interested in him! Though if he was serious with his ex he might need a little time to process the breakup. Unless he and this new girl don’t mind being a rebound. There’s no shame in that!
  

Not Careful With Her Phone

For the most part, cheaters are very secretive about all aspects of their life. After all, they’re trying to hide something scandalous that would ruin their relationship if it got out. Though sometimes it seems like these cheaters WANT to get caught. It’s as if they’re too chicken to end the relationship themselves. That certainly seems to be the situation here.

Why on Earth would you give your boyfriend your phone while you’re texting some other guy about a date? Maybe they were really lost and she completely forgot about it. Well, she’ll definitely have a lot of free time for that date now that she’s been dumped!
  

She Couldn’t Trust Her Friend

There are mixed opinions when it comes to having a partner with opposite sex friends. Lots of people have no issue with it, while others are more conservative with the kind of company their partner has. For the most part, you should be able to trust your husband with a female friend. It’s his job as a married man not to sleep with other women (duh).

This guy just couldn’t help himself, and it seems the friend wasn’t exactly the most loyal. Two relationships ended that night, what a devastating thing to discover. Hopefully, this poor woman doesn’t have trust issues after this. Not all friends will double cross you!
  

A Ten Step Program

Some people are hyper organized and like to plan their every move. Whether it’s as mundane as grocery shopping or as sinister as cheating on their significant other. If you’re planning out the latter, you might want to keep your notes hidden. We’re surprised she wrote out ten whole steps, seems like it could be condensed down into two.

One: Divorce your husband. Two: Get with the other guy. Is there anything we’re missing here? After finding her little book her husband was able to make that plan a whole lot shorter. There’s really no saving a marriage after that discovery. Hopefully she learned to keep her evil plans to herself after that.
  

Never Cheat In A Locked Bathroom

Locking yourself in the bathroom with another person is automatically suspicious. There are very few clean activities you can do in there without looking shady, especially if the other person isn’t your significant other. If it was something innocent like, say, removing a splinter, then they wouldn’t need to unlock the door. Moreover, that’s really something her husband should be helping her with.

It was pretty obvious what was going on in there. Maybe she thought she could get away with it in the chaos of a party, but someone was bound to notice and let her husband know. Throwing away ten years of marriage over something like that is low. We’re sure her ex-husband is better off without her.
  

That Poor Little Girl…

Cheaters will often keep the person they’re fooling around with far from their personal life. Usually they’ll rent a hotel room to prevent getting caught, sometimes they’ll even take different cars. You’ll rarely see someone introduce their side chick to their friends or family. But some cheaters are either clueless or just don’t care if they get caught. 

This lady really went the extra mile and introduced another man to her kid! That’s going to be difficult for her dad to explain. It’s pretty cruel to bring your child into your infidelity, now they need to deal with all the emotional baggage that comes with it. Good thing the kid told her dad about her mom sneaking around! 
  

Don’t Share Everything On Social Media

Nowadays you have to be careful with everything you post on social media. Anything you put out there can become public knowledge quickly, and sometimes it can end up falling into the wrong hands. This girl might’ve thought she was making a private confession to her friends, but she clearly didn’t check her privacy settings first. Maybe she wanted her boyfriend to find out?

Pretty cowardly to confess to everyone else before telling your partner. Bad enough that he needs to deal with a cheater, now everyone will know exactly why he and his girl broke up. Some things just shouldn’t be broadcasted on social media, certain bits of information are best kept private.
  

Moving On A Little Too Fast

Everyone needs to move on after a breakup, that much we know for sure. Some people take more time than others, but one thing’s certain, getting engaged after a week is super fishy. We’re not surprised this guy thought something was up after that announcement. We’ve heard of quick engagements but this is just ridiculous.

Turns out she had been dating this other guy for three years! How do people manage to keep two relationships afloat in total secrecy? These people are masterminds of deception, maybe they should work as undercover agents. We hope her new fiance is aware of the kind of person she is, he might start to have second thoughts.
  

When All The Apple Products Are In Sync

Apple products are made so that they easily connect to one another. When you have iMessage open on your phone, it can also be open on your laptop, monitor, and iPad. This feature was created to make the sharing of information and content easier, but it also definitely affects privacy. If there’s anything you’re trying to hide, you need to keep all of your devices locked and close to you at all times. 

This cheater underestimated the synchronization of Apple products. But also, who is stupid enough to leave pictures of cheating on their phone? If they were hoarding digital evidence, it was only a matter of time before the Apple Cloud caught them. All this partner probably had to do was open their laptop to see them. No snooping needed.
  

Sisters Before Misters

Finding out that your partner’s cheating on you is a tough blow to process. Add the fact that you were the side piece makes that betrayal even harder. People that had no idea that they were homewrecking are rarely the ones to blame. This girl, upon discovering that her relationship was born of cheating, decided to attempt to save the other woman from her terrible partner. A truly brave thing to do. She had no idea how the woman would react, but wanted her to have all the information anyway.

That was probably the worst email this woman ever received. She probably thought it was spam, but it was much worse than that. Hopefully she and her child got out of that situation quickly!
  

No Need For A Paternity Test

The fact that this girl didn’t even need to do a paternity test to know whose child it was says a lot. It also means her and the boyfriend (who wasn’t the father probably) should have broken up ages ago. A break up was probably in the works for a long time. Regardless, using your cheating habits to finally make the break is a coward’s way to go.

This girl was so ready to get out she didn’t even wait to see if she was actually pregnant. The guilt from her actions was probably catching up with her. She just took this excuse and ran with it. Someone should tell her that breakups can happen at any time. There doesn’t need to be a dramatic event that releases you from the commitment.
  

Besties With My Ex’s Mom

The fact that this boy was and still is so close with the mother of his ex girlfriend is extraordinary. But then again, some people you simply just connect with. However, it doesn’t change how completely incredible it was that the mother tattled on her own daughter. It’s also interesting that the boy never told his ex where he got the information from. Maybe the two of them have kept that secret between them still.

Some people would argue that the mother should’ve minded her own business, while others would say that’s what parenting’s all about. There’s a fine line between meddling and teaching.
  

The Wrong Hoodie

For some, stealing your boyfriend’s clothes is one of the big perks of having a partner. The different fit, the smell and the reminder of your relationship makes the clothes much more than a piece of fabric. Boys probably also appreciate seeing their partner in their shirts or jackets. Someone wearing something that’s yours makes them feel more connected to you. But discovering they’re enjoying someone else’s hoodie? That’s gotta sting.

Also, to find out that you’re being cheated on through Twitter is completely preposterous. This innocent scroll through took a turn for the worse. But then again, a cheater that’s open about it on social media is probably someone you want to get away from.

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